We thank you for taking the time to look at our profile. We hope you were able to get to know us a little. We can only imagine how difficult this process is for you. Please know that whether or not you choose us, we greatly respect your choice to consider an adoption plan. We think you are strong and courageous.
If we are chosen as adoptive parents, we promise to support your baby in everything he or she ever does. We will always give this child love, acceptance and nurturing, a healthy lifestyle, a great education, extended family and more. If you choose us, we hope that someday we will be able to meet and that we will stay in contact throughout the child’s life. Regardless of the level of openness that you prefer, we will always speak of you with love and respect. Your child will know that you love them and planned a wonderful life for them.
We very much want to be parents. We can’t wait to spend long nights cuddled up with a baby, reading to a toddler, and watching a child grow. We are sending you love and wishing you all the best as you decide what’s right for you and your baby.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.